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Pakistani families are very close, often consisting of grandparents, parents
and children living together in the same house. The smaller family is
becoming more of a reality in the urban centres. The elderly often live with
their children and are treated with great respect. Children tend to
accompany their parents to most social events. Important events in the
family's life are celebrated with relatives and friends. Pakistani families
are usually large because children are considered to be gifts from God or
Allah. Teaching children the beliefs of Islam is considered to be one of the
most important responsibilities of family life.
Most
Pakistani marriages are arranged. When a couple is married, the bride
applies mehndi or henna paste to her hands and feet and the quazi, the
religious leader, administers the nikah or marriage contract. Strong
traditions and values influence women's status in the family and in the
community. These affect opportunities for education and for work, especially
for less privileged women.
When a
male baby is born, circumcision is performed in accordance with religious
rites. When he is seven days old, the family holds an aqeeqa ceremony, which
is a family feast. Both men and women wear the shalwar-kameez, the national
dress. This consists of loose pants gathered at the waist and worn with a
long shirt. The women's clothing is more colourful, and is worn with a long
scarf or dupatta. Some wear a chaddar, which is a shawl or long garment. In
the urban areas men are more likely to wear western-style clothes.
Wealthy families and middle-class families live in bungalows or large
apartment buildings. Many employ servants to perform various household
duties. In the cities' poorer areas, families live in two or three room
dwellings. In rural Pakistan, cooking is still done on small kerosene
stoves, clothes are washed on the banks of rivers and water is transported
from rivers and wells.
More
than 97% of Pakistan's population is Muslim. The remaining 3% is made up of
Hindus, Buddhists, Zoroastrians and Christians. Islam is the official
religion of Pakistan. A Federal Shariat Court has been set up to review the
country's laws in the light of the Islamic penal code. Muslims are guided by
the Quran, or Koran, the holy book, which they believe was revealed to the
Prophet Mohammed.
Islam,
Christianity and Judaism share many common beliefs and traditions. The
giving of alms and compassion for the poor are stressed in these religions.
Muslims are obliged to give 2.5% of their wealth to the needy. All three
religions also stress the transitory nature of life on earth as a
preparation for the hereafter.
Devout
Muslims must heed the call of prayer five times every day. They pray facing
the city of Mecca in Saudia Arabia. Most Muslims will arrange their
schedules according to the prayer times. The prayer is preceded by the
required ablution, which means washing the face, hands and feet. Friday is
the Muslim holy day and most Pakistanis participate in congregational
prayers in the mosque.
The
Five Pillars of Islam Tawheed: Belief in the oneness of Allah and the
prophethood of Mohammed Salaat: Five daily prayers Zakaat: The giving of
alms to the needy Sawim: Fasting during the month of Ramadan Haj: Pilgrimage
to Mecca
Once a
year, there is Ramadan, the holy month of fasting. No food or drink is
permitted from dawn to dusk. The end of this month is celebrated with
special meals and festivities for Eid-al-Fitr. Muslims are also required to
perform the Hajj, a holy pilgrimage to Mecca, once in their lifetime if they
are financially able to do so. The last day of the pilgrimage commemorates
the second major festival of Islamic belief,Eid-al-Adha. |